The One Relationship That Changes Everything
Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “Why do I keep ending up here?” The same cycles. Same disappointments. Same emptiness. You set new goals, tried new routines, and attempted to recreate this new version of yourself, but nothing ever seems to stick. Sounds familiar?
Facing the Hard Truth
This was most of my life until I hit rock bottom and didn’t know how to climb my way out. I had to face reality. How much longer was I going to suffer? How much longer were my kids, my loved ones, going to suffer? How many more times was I going to try to “fix” myself?
If any of this resonates with you, maybe it’s time to try something different. Maybe it’s time to face the hard truths. Maybe it’s time to start healing from within, instead of covering up your wounds with temporary distractions. Maybe… it’s God pulling you closer to Him, and it’s time to focus on your relationship with Him.
Why a Personal Relationship with God Changes Everything
This is something I’ll always stress. Your relationship with God is THE most important relationship you will ever have. Why, you ask? He’ll give you the love you’ve always dreamed of. He’ll protect you from yourself and others. He’ll order your steps and light your path along the way. He’ll walk with you during dark times.
And trust, those dark times will come. Walking with God doesn’t mean you will have perfect, joyful days for the rest of your life. But here’s what it does instead. You’ll find purpose in your pain, peace in the chaos, and a sense of identity that’s been void for most of your life. You’ll begin to experience:
Calmness through stress
Protection through His rejection
Healing through surrender
Confidence in your calling
A deeper understanding of who you really are and why…
There honestly isn’t enough time for me to list all the ways your life will begin to change for the better once you start choosing Him over this world. But these are just a few of the ways God has shown up for me since I stopped trying to do life alone.
Relationship Over Religion
Let me be clear: nothing against those who choose religion. However, this isn’t about religion for me, and it never will be. This is about learning who God is for yourself. We will all experience God in different ways. Here are just a few examples:
How He speaks to you (because everyone doesn’t hear God in the same way)
Your unique gifts and how to use them
How to trust Him in the process
How your faith strengthens during hard times (things that have the rest of the world panicking and living in fear won’t bother you like they did before)
My Final Thoughts
If you keep finding yourself in the same place, feeling tired, lost, broken, and unfulfilled, what else do you have to lose at this point? There is a better life for you on the other side. You can find your voice, live in confidence, and stop seeking validation from the wrong people. You can finally experience what true peace feels like. I’m rooting for you. I know we all have our own journey, but one thing I can guarantee you is that your journey won’t be as tough as long as you keep your eyes on Him.
Start simple. Talk to Him like you’re having a regular conversation. Start reading the bible every day, even if it’s for 5 minutes. Prayer really does change things. Give yourself grace and know that God loves you. You are His daughter. He will meet you where you’re at.
If you ever need support or don’t know where to start, please understand that this is a safe space to grow, heal, and walk boldly in who God created you to be.
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